cmd is not the greatest way to do this in a modern system. Powershell is far more versatile and, once you get used to the syntax and symantics, far more powerful.
For example, to list all the processes in a system:
PS C:\Users\user> Get-Process
Handles NPM(K) PM(K) WS(K) CPU(s) Id SI ProcessName
325 20 10328 28056 0.28 17868 2 ApplicationFrameHost
208 15 7308 12952 22.95 12092 0 audiodg
476 33 26572 15592 106.06 8852 2 BorderlessGaming
155 11 1792 7600 4132 0 BtwRSupportService
53 4 672 2980 5096 0 cdarbsvc_v1.0.0_x64
142 7 1616 9092 0.05 17728 2 CompPkgSrv
... etc
From there you can list a specific PID:
PS C:\Users\user> Get-Process -PID 12092
Handles NPM(K) PM(K) WS(K) CPU(s) Id SI ProcessName
208 12 7308 12952 31.48 12092 0 audiodg
PM = Private Memory
WS = Working Set
To get only the memory:
PS C:\Users\user> (Get-Process -PID 12092).WorkingSet
13217792
PS C:\Users\user> (Get-Process -PID 12092).PrivateMemorySize
7413760
If you have powershell available on your system you can use it to run the command and return it to cmd:
cmd> powershell.exe -command "(Get-Process -PID 12092).PrivateMemorySize"
7598080
There are some suggestions that powershell may not properly output when run from certain environments and needs you to use Write-Output as well as -InputFormat none so try
powershell.exe -InputFormat none -command "Write-Output((Get-Process -PID 12092).PrivateMemorySize)"
make sure that you are properly escaping quotes and so on in your php script.