Thanks for pointing me in the right direction. I made a reg file script to for excel so it always opens in multiple exe instances vs the new default single instance. /X is the option for this in MS office apps. "excel.exe /X" in shortcut, and ".... excel.exe" /X "%1" in registry.
From win7:
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\xls_auto_file]
@=""
"EditFlags"=hex:00,00,01,00
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\xls_auto_file\shell]
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\xls_auto_file\shell\open]
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\xls_auto_file\shell\open\command]
@="\"C:\\Program Files (x86)\\Microsoft Office\\root\\Office16\\EXCEL.EXE\" /X \"%1\""
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\xlsx_auto_file]
@=""
"EditFlags"=hex:00,00,00,00
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\xlsx_auto_file\shell]
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\xlsx_auto_file\shell\open]
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\xlsx_auto_file\shell\open\command]
@="\"C:\\Program Files (x86)\\Microsoft Office\\root\\Office16\\EXCEL.EXE\" /X \"%1\""