I'm using Windows 7 Running Chrome 38.0.2125.111 m, Google Hangouts plugin 2014.910.433.1.
I'm experiencing the behaviour whereby if I disable notifications for a particular person, it makes me invisible to them.
I'd prefer this to not happen. (At face value it seems like odd behaviour but on reflection it seems in line with the rest of the design decisions that have gone into the product). Is there a way to disable it from happening?
edit: I'm trying to disable notifications by unticking the 'Notifications' checkbox in this option for that user:

