EMBARRASSING UPDATE:
I rebooted my laptop and it solved the problem. D'oh! Thanks for your thoughtful answers.
I’m using OS X 10.10.2 (14C109). I’m not sure when this changed, but certainly a couple of months ago I was able to use the “Go” menu on my desktop to browse to my laptop over my Local Area Network (LAN) and move files back and forth by drag and drop.
Yesterday I tried to do so and cannot see the laptop. If I type in its IP address on the LAN, e.g., smb://192.168.0.195, I can connect to it and it works fine, so sharing is enabled and working and the laptop is visible. And of course I can use SCP from the command line to do the same. But I do not see it when I try to “Browse” and looking up the IP address is not really what I want to have to do each time as DHCP changes it around.
Isn’t Bonjour supposed to make this easier? Finding the laptop’s IP address is a bit of a hassle. Edit: I can see my desktop from my laptop when I "Browse." Just not the other way around...
If I run arp -a on my desktop, it does not list my laptop's IP address but does very quickly lists most of my other devices on my LAN. If I run arp -a on my laptop it is very slow and shows a WAN address that is not any that I can recognize, starting with 169.254, along with a couple more I do recognize. Odd.