zhabohadyuking

English

Etymology

This English term is a hot word. Its inclusion on Wiktionary is provisional.

Borrowed from Ukrainian жабогадю́кінг (žabohadjúkinh, a specific conflict between two disliked enemies). Made of жаба (žaba, a frog) + гадюка (hadjuka, viper) + -ing. The term mimics modern English activity nouns (such as brainstorming or networking) and was coined in Ukrainian internet culture to humorously describe a particular style of interpersonal conflict.

The word is believed to be a modern, ironic adaptation of the Ukrainian folk saying Ukrainian їба́ла жа́ба гадю́ку (jibála žába hadjúku) (literally, “the frog fucked the viper”), which refers to a grotesque or absurd fight between two equally unpleasant individuals. The phrase is deeply embedded in Ukrainian vernacular and serves as a metaphor for conflict devoid of moral high ground.

The term "zhabohadyuking" has since appeared in online commentary and media discussions, particularly in reference to passive-aggressive gossip or toxic public feuds.

Noun

zhabohadyuking (uncountable)

  1. (humorous, slang, Internet slang, Ukraine, neologism) The act of group gossip characterized by malice, passive aggression, or spiteful commentary, typically behind someone's back.
    That influencer feud is pure zhabohadyuking — no heroes, just venom.
    The group chat turned into a session of zhabohadyuking about the manager.
  2. (humorous, slang, Internet slang, Ukraine, neologism) A public argument or feud between two parties who are equally unpleasant, corrupt, or morally compromised — provoking ridicule rather than sympathy.
    “Watching two shady politicians go after each other — total zhabohadyuking in action.
    It’s not a debate, it’s zhabohadyuking: just venom from both sides.

Usage notes

Popularised among English-speaking Internet users who supported Ukraine since the 2022 Russian invasion of the country, and among Ukrainians who use English.

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Attestation

 “Today’s Ukrainian word: zhabohadyuking.”
 “This is the ultimate zhabohadyuking moment.” — meme post by a Ukrainian political expert.
 “Zhabohadyuking at its finest. No good guys here, just chaos.”
 “We’ve entered the stage of international zhabohadyuking.”
 Caption: “Never miss a learning opportunity! 😍💙 #zhabohadyuking #trumsk #alienvspredator”
 “This whole thread is pure zhabohadyuking. I’m here for it.”
 “Trump vs Elon = peak zhabohadyuking. Two egos, zero winners.”
 “Zhabohadyuking (noun, slang, ironic)” — shared by a Canadian librarian and information advocate.

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