zhabohadyuking
English
Etymology
Borrowed from Ukrainian жабогадю́кінг (žabohadjúkinh, “a specific conflict between two disliked enemies”). Made of жаба (žaba, “a frog”) + гадюка (hadjuka, “viper”) + -ing. The term mimics modern English activity nouns (such as brainstorming or networking) and was coined in Ukrainian internet culture to humorously describe a particular style of interpersonal conflict.
The word is believed to be a modern, ironic adaptation of the Ukrainian folk saying Ukrainian їба́ла жа́ба гадю́ку (jibála žába hadjúku) (literally, “the frog fucked the viper”), which refers to a grotesque or absurd fight between two equally unpleasant individuals. The phrase is deeply embedded in Ukrainian vernacular and serves as a metaphor for conflict devoid of moral high ground.
The term "zhabohadyuking" has since appeared in online commentary and media discussions, particularly in reference to passive-aggressive gossip or toxic public feuds.
Noun
zhabohadyuking (uncountable)
- (humorous, slang, Internet slang, Ukraine, neologism) The act of group gossip characterized by malice, passive aggression, or spiteful commentary, typically behind someone's back.
- That influencer feud is pure zhabohadyuking — no heroes, just venom.
- The group chat turned into a session of zhabohadyuking about the manager.
- (humorous, slang, Internet slang, Ukraine, neologism) A public argument or feud between two parties who are equally unpleasant, corrupt, or morally compromised — provoking ridicule rather than sympathy.
- “Watching two shady politicians go after each other — total zhabohadyuking in action.
- It’s not a debate, it’s zhabohadyuking: just venom from both sides.
Usage notes
Popularised among English-speaking Internet users who supported Ukraine since the 2022 Russian invasion of the country, and among Ukrainians who use English.
Synonyms
See also
- passive-aggression
- character assassination
- backstabbing
- cringe politics
Attestation
- Reddit ([r/WallStreetbetsELITE](https://www.reddit.com/r/WallStreetbetsELITE/comments/1l4cdn0/todays_ukrainian_word_zhabohadyuking/)):
“Today’s Ukrainian word: zhabohadyuking.”
- Facebook by Alexander Khara ([link](https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=9919431601425995&id=100000777600262&set=a.472811559421427)):
“This is the ultimate zhabohadyuking moment.” — meme post by a Ukrainian political expert.
- X (Twitter) by [@TrishaNicholson](https://x.com/TrishaNicholson/status/1930776784636981311):
“Zhabohadyuking at its finest. No good guys here, just chaos.”
- X (Twitter) by [@Lavrovskyi](https://x.com/Lavrovskyi/status/1930702385154077045):
“We’ve entered the stage of international zhabohadyuking.”
- Instagram by [@myvoicemychoiceorg](https://www.instagram.com/p/DKicNM2vxQo/):
Caption: “Never miss a learning opportunity! 😍💙 #zhabohadyuking #trumsk #alienvspredator”
- X (Twitter) by [@flgazr1](https://twitter.com/flgazr1/status/1930822702354313524):
“This whole thread is pure zhabohadyuking. I’m here for it.”
- Threads by [@yarochenko](https://www.threads.com/@yarochenko/post/DKitq8Avkwj/trump-vs-elon-peak-zhabohadyukingtwo-egos-zero-winners-one-big-beautiful-breakup):
“Trump vs Elon = peak zhabohadyuking. Two egos, zero winners.”
- Facebook by Stephen Abram ([link](https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=10171832724435615&id=stephen.abram.98)):
“Zhabohadyuking (noun, slang, ironic)” — shared by a Canadian librarian and information advocate.